by Shelly Webb
The
greatest thief to ever burglarize the human race does so without raising a single
weapon or breaking into a single building, home, garage or store. He is a quiet
thief, subtle, cunning and undetected. We base much of our life on him and
allow his constraints to prioritize most of our days. His name is ‘time’
and he alone has perpetrated more crimes against humanity than most of us
realize.
The
problem with ‘time’ is you don’t understand his power until it’s too
late. You might notice him occasionally lurking at your bathroom mirror. You’re
brushing your teeth or applying mascara when you suddenly catch the glimpse of
a small line beginning to form at the corner of your eye.
But,
you’re busy. You glance at the line, wonder what it is and how it got there and
then rush out on your way.
You
pick up your three-year-old at preschool and celebrate the fact that she can finally
write her own name, all the while the thief, ‘time’, smirks in
the backseat. Only he realizes the significance of this accomplishment. Only he
sees how quickly Kindergarten will come, junior high and graduation. You’re
just happy she can write her name…finally because…it’s about time.
Summer
days seem shorter, months begin to fly by and you start understanding that ‘time’
is moving at a much faster pace than he once did. Then, one day you reach for
the phone book and find yourself squinting. You ask your high schooler, yes the
one that used to be a preschooler a short time ago, “why are they making the font in
the phone books so small now”? And in response to your question, ‘time’
laughs out loud and adds another line to your face. So you buy reading glasses
and wrinkle cream and hope for the best, but the thief continues to rob and
steal. You find yourself getting your hair colored every five weeks now instead
of six and choosing comfortable shoes over fashionable ones. And ‘time’ is
humored by your state of denial and vain efforts to slow him down.
Birthdays
slip by, anniversaries come and grandparents die, pictures are taken, videos
created and 28 New Year’s Eve parties later…you’re a grandma!
And
at this point, you start to develop a little more fear and respect for ‘time’
and his little game. You know now that all the events in life, the joyous and
the sad are presented in part, by this great thief. He is the uninvited, unseen
guest at every dinner and every vacation. He introduces us to new vocabulary
like cholesterol, annuity, retirement and ‘son-in-law’.
Ironically,
we spend most of life trying to manage ‘time’ only to actual be managed
by him. Time to work, time to rest, time to spend with friends, time for kids,
time for fun, time to plan, time to learn time management and eventually just coveting
time for bed. It’s hard to believe that such a tiny word, ‘time’, can possess
so much power and influence over life.
‘Time’
is a thief, there is little doubt about that…but for every antagonist there is
a protagonist and this story is no different. Another tiny word…called ‘memories’
is able to diminish ‘time’ and weaken his cold grip.
‘Memories’
are the ultimate weapon against ‘time’, because they are actually
created by ‘time’; something ‘time’ probably hates in the same
way Voldemort hated that he transposed some his power to Harry when he tried to
kill him.
‘Memories’
are powerful and can be replayed over and over in your heart and head where ‘time’
cannot touch. ‘Memories’ can capture ‘time’ and hold him in
perspective. ‘Memories’ can transcend the damage ‘time’ can do
into a glorious time of reminiscing. ‘Time’ may be a thief, but ‘Memories’
bring back everything ‘time’ steals and does so with laughter and joy.
I believe
that the memories we make with the time we are given are priceless treasures
that cannot be stolen forever. They are always there, embedded deep within our
hearts, whether or not we can express them or recall them, they are there
bridging the gaps that ‘time’ creates. Spend your time wisely in 2015
and make great memories whether you have the time or not.
